How to Know if she likes you!
Most men have no idea at all whether or not a girl they are talking to is interested in them also. Women are far more complex than men and actually give off several tell tale signs that show they like you.
Here are a list of pointers you can look out for when talking to a girl or on a date for the first time.
Before we jump in, lets look at signs that she is clearly not interested in you.
- She looks away all the time at other things
- She is on her phone when talking to you
- She keeps asking for the time
- Her body is pointing away from your direction.
- She keeps asking when the next bus or train is coming.
Now, the above signs may seem incredibly obvious to many men, and you may well laugh a little at these, but the same obviousness applies to the signs that she is interested in you.
The truth is that once you get to know what these “interested” signals are, it is easy to spot them and your chances of romance increase with how much you learn.
So lets jump in and take a closer look at the positive signals a woman will give off when she is interested in you.
- Her eyes are dilated
Her eyes can tell a big story in how she is feeling and thinking inside. You need to hold her gaze and pay attention to what her eyes are doing. If they are dilated it means she is relaxed and comfortable in your presence and this is a great sign.
- She holds your gaze
She is showing that she is interested in you and what you have to say. She likes what she sees and wants to see more.
- She asks you questions about yourself
Again she is asking probing questions to simply “keep the conversation going” as she wants to continue enjoying the moment with you.
- She often smiles.
This shows that she is interested in you. A smile is also often easy to spot in her eyes.
If the above pointers are coming from her then these are very good positive signals she is giving out. At this stage you should compliment her on her appearance. For example “nice outfit”.
- She plays with her hair
This is an inadvertent flirting technique. She is playing with her hair in a way that she would like you to do, even if subconsciously.
- She plays with and bites her lips.
Again this means she is interested. Subconsciously she is doing to her lips what she would like you to do to her lips (unless she is chewing on a wart then perhaps not). What she is doing is drawing your attention to her lips. You may begin to have thoughts of kissing them, and that is exactly what she is hoping for!
- She faces you
Is her body and her feet facing towards you? Bingo – a great positive sign that she is interested in you and wants to intently listen to and enjoy what you are talking about. Consider it a positive vibe.
- She wants to be around you – a lot.
This might mean she is texting you quite a bit, or she tends to come over to you “first” in a crowded room, or in a party she will make sure YOU get her first glance as she enters (even if she doesnt come over to you first).
- Accidental touching – oops!
Physical contact is a big thing for girls. So the next time they accidentally brush against your arm, or give a playful punch consider it a positive sign that they are interested in you and what you have to offer.
- Ha ha ha – youre so funny – not!
So you may not be the best at telling jokes, but if she laughs at yours and you know they arent that good, consider it a positive sign. Even if she doesnt like them much she is trying to show interest that she likes you.
- Hey youre so cool!
If she is talking about you to her friends or family consider this a good thing. She is asking for their opinion on you. Every girl wants to get the confirmation from her friends that you are a “good egg” so if you overhear things or know that she is talking about you consider this to be a Green signal for go get her!
If you are interested in discovering more about signals from women and learning ways to tell if a girl likes you then contact me Tony Frampton anytime for more advice and tips!