The art of chatting up girls

When it comes to dating and dating techniques that guys employ one are where many guys really are left wanting is in the most simple areas such  as basically just knowing how to chat up girls and basically knowing what to say. there are so many different elements to this and it really is quite easy to improve if under the right instruction or if enough effort is put into overcoming this issue.

There are some basic rules that we need to follow which include such things as:

Eye Contact – When communicating you really do need to maintain eye contact but it really has to be he right amount. Too much and she might think  that you are a bit strange and no enough and she might think that you are a bit weak or shy etc. In order to have success with women it is really a better way to show confidence with the girl that you are talking to

The Subject – It is not just about talking non-stop to your date, in order to really learn how to attract a girl we must make sure that the conversation is fairly light hearted and something that will make her smile. Again here we need to reach a happy medium. For example even if she shows interest in world affairs, it is probably a bad move to start putting the world to rights over geo-politics and equally you dont need to be a stand up comedian either, and so striking this balance is really the ultimate key to success with women

Open Questions – the oldest one in the book is to ask the girl some open questions. By doing this you really encourage her to talk a lot more about herself which is always a winner and asking questions that can lead to a yes or no answer can easily lead to a quick disaster for the conversation with your new date

Stay tuned for our next installment of talking to women where we will discuss this in a bit more depth and also look at some different angles!

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Why are some younger women attracted to older men

It is now becoming more and more common that younger women are in search of their sugar daddy and there are even lots of websites that are completely directed at this such as to name one of the more commonly known ones.

The reason for this is often quite complex and made up of many different elements for different people but the common theme among young women that opt for this option is that they are looking for someone who has more maturity than someone of their own age. At a young age most young women would argue that guys of the same age are basically too immature for them and added to this they really just don’t know what they want in life and this is not appealing

One of the other crucial points is that as well as the maturity factor, most older guys are usually better set up in their life and have some good savings behind them as well as more security, such as their own property and maybe business etc.

The next aspect of why younger women are likely to go for the older man is that they will often say that they are more experienced lovers and so perform a lot better in the bedroom. Whether it is knowing how to kiss a girl properly or how to last longer when it comes to making love, younger women do tend to put a lot more faith in the abilities of the older man rightly or wrongly

In summary it can be quite a generalization to be of this opinion and in many cases it can be way of the mark, but on the whole most older guys do really know what they want and perhaps do offer a few things that they younger guy cannot at his stage of life!

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How To Know If A Girl Likes You – Simple Signals That Give A Green Light!

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How to Know if she likes you!

Most men have no idea at all whether or not a girl they are talking to is interested in them also. Women are far more complex than men and actually give off several tell tale signs that show they like you.

Here are a list of pointers you can look out for when talking to a girl or on a date for the first time.

Before we jump in, let’s look at signs that she is clearly not interested in you.

  • She looks away all the time at other things
  • She is on her phone when talking to you
  • She keeps asking for the time
  • Her body is pointing away from your direction.
  • She keeps asking when the next bus or train is coming.

Now, the above signs may seem incredibly obvious to many men, and you may well laugh a little at these, but the same obviousness applies to the signs that she is interested in you.

The truth is that once you get to know what these “interested” signals are, it is easy to spot them and your chances of romance increase with how much you learn.

So let’s jump in and take a closer look at the positive signals a woman will give off when she is interested in you.

  • Her eyes are dilated

Her eyes can tell a big story in how she is feeling and thinking inside. You need to hold her gaze and pay attention to what her eyes are doing. If they are dilated it means she is relaxed and comfortable in your presence and this is a great sign.

  • She holds your gaze

She is showing that she is interested in you and what you have to say. She likes what she sees and wants to see more.

  • She asks you questions about yourself

Again she is asking probing questions to simply “keep the conversation going” as she wants to continue enjoying the moment with you.

  • She often smiles.

This shows that she is interested in you. A smile is also often easy to spot in her eyes.

If the above pointers are coming from her then these are very good positive signals she is giving out. At this stage you should compliment her on her appearance. For example “nice outfit”.

  • She plays with her hair

This is an inadvertent flirting technique. She is playing with her hair in a way that she would like you to do, even if subconsciously.

  • She plays with and bites her lips.

Again this means she is interested. Subconsciously she is doing to her lips what she would like you to do to her lips (unless she is chewing on a wart then perhaps not). What she is doing is drawing your attention to her lips. You may begin to have thoughts of kissing them, and that is exactly what she is hoping for!

  • She faces you

Is her body and her feet facing towards you? Bingo – a great positive sign that she is interested in you and wants to intently listen to and enjoy what you are talking about. Consider it a positive vibe.

  • She wants to be around you – a lot.

This might mean she is texting you quite a bit, or she tends to come over to you “first” in a crowded room, or in a party she will make sure YOU get her first glance as she enters (even if she doesn’t come over to you first).

  • Accidental touching – oops!

Physical contact is a big thing for girls. So the next time they accidentally brush against your arm, or give a playful punch consider it a positive sign that they are interested in you and what you have to offer.

  • Ha ha ha – you’re so funny – not!

So you may not be the best at telling jokes, but if she laughs at yours and you know they aren’t that good, consider it a positive sign. Even if she doesn’t like them much she is trying to show interest that she likes you.

  • Hey you’re so cool!

If she is talking about you to her friends or family consider this a good thing. She is asking for their opinion on you. Every girl wants to get the confirmation from her friends that you are a “good egg” so if you overhear things or know that she is talking about you consider this to be a Green signal for go get her!

If you are interested in discovering more about signals from women and how to tell if a girl likes you then contact me Tony Frampton anytime for more advice and tips!

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Discover 5 Dead Easy Ways To Seduce A Woman

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Seducing A Woman

Looking to improve your love life and mix with more and more women? How would you like to be able to do a handful of simple things and seduce incredible women?

Let’s start out by saying what you shouldn’t be doing.

For a start the last thing you should be doing is being a pervert and making it obvious to her that you want to have your cravings satisfied. Nor should you be initiating “dirty talk” right off the bat.

A woman wants to feel safe around you. If she is to open up sexually with you she needs to feel totally “at ease” and you have to show her that you are the man for the job.

She won’t be looking for a hairy bum crack on show, or a sweaty beard with food stuck in it, so all of these things will need to be addressed.

Turn her on before you even touch her

With a woman it’s all about her, and what she wants. Sure, you can feel selfish and object to this, but if you follow things as they should be, you will have more than your fair share of amazing women wanting to be with you and spend time with you and get to know you that little bit better.

Sound good?

Ok let’s look closer at how to seduce a woman with the smartest techniques!

TIP 1: Groom yourself well

Turning up on a first date in food spattered crinkled clothing isn’t going to cut it. Seriously, how is she going to react when you smell of fast food and have mud on your face and pieces of Broccoli stuck between your teeth?

Make sure you are clean and smell nice. Ensure your clothing is clean and presentable and you make the best of your personal appearance.

TIP 2: Paint a positive outgoing picture of yourself

Traditionally, men protect “their woman” – or they did in caveman days. Contenders would step in and get beaten back by a large club. “She’s mine!”. Even though we live in a far more neutral world these days, it’s still inherently programmed into our DNA for “men to protect women”.

This is why women love the idea of a hero. I’m sure you know how things go when the mere mention of a fireman crops up in conversation – most women will smile and raise their eyebrows.

So when you are talking to a woman you need to give out a vibe of positivity. You know the traditional “Fonz” from happy days – a “cool dude” with all the confidence in the world.

Now I’m not advocating you need to be like Fonz, but you do need to have an air of confidence about you.

If you are so nervous that you simply cannot do this here’s how you can overcome this:

Think of something that you do that you are good at.

Maybe you are a great decorator, or a great gardener. As you are talking to her, if you feel the nerves, simply say to yourself (silently):

“I’m a good decorator. Mrs XYZ really was gob-smacked when I decorated her hallway AND she told her friends. Yep, I’m pretty good at that”.


“I may not be tall dark or handsome but I know how to make a garden look nice. The borders look really nice when they’ve been weeded and tidied up and it’s really great to look at. Yep, I’d say I’m a pretty good gardener!”

TIP 3: Setting the right mood – getting on the right path

So, if you learn how to “stroke her head” (i.e. her mind), it will lead her straight into your bed. Romantic settings may mean very little to us men. Soft lighting or easy music we may not care about, but for a woman who may be nervous or feel insecure about her body, these things all help to set the right mood for romance.

Women love the idea of romance. “Tall dark man sweeps her off her feet and looks after her as well as fulfilling all of her deepest desires”. Is it any wonder 50 shades did so well? Now imagine if the same Mr Gray was a short wearing beer bellied guy who constantly burped and farted. 99% of women will turn up their nose.

Appeal to her sense of smell. Old Spice is now old news. You should ask her if she prefers the scent of cinnamon, Sandalwood, roses etc. and consider a incense burner.

NEVER offer to show her your bed! She knows and you know that a chat or date “may” end up leading somewhere. The good news is as long as you don’t even bring it up in conversation you are more likely to keep the story moving than to end it abruptly. Even if you are alone with her and things are heating up, just take things as they come and go with the flow.

Keep confident – believe in what you are good at and don’t succumb to your ego by showing her your “Ferrari, or expensive phone” etc. Women much more prefer a man with humility than an egomaniac so forget about bragging.

Make her laugh – yep it’s true. If you can make a woman laugh all day long things stand a very good chance of being a success for years to come. Women love to be around confident people who make them laugh and enrich their lives. They don’t want to be around shallow people who never go out, watch tv all day or never strike up a conversation.

If you have things in common you can probably talk about something funny. Perhaps you could make a joke about her choice in pop star, or talk about how funny it was when “co-worker” spilled Green paint down them.

TIP 4: Match her “style” when kissing.

So if you’ve taken things slowly and things are going well. You’ve leaned in for the kiss. How do you act or kiss her?

Well ideally you want to be matching how she kisses. Whatever she is doing with her tongue you should do the same. If she is kissing slowly and gently then do the same.

TIP 5: When you’re in the bedroom give her what she wants

In return you will have your every dream fulfilled. Don’t simply go straight into sex and pleasure yourself in under 5 minutes. You have to STOP being selfish! This is no longer about you emptying your load into her and climbing out of bed to go grab a beer.

You need to be a great listener and give her exactly what she wants. Make her the centre of attention and ensure that your only aim is to give her the most intense orgasms ever. When you do this, and make it “only about her” you will be blown away by what happens.

This can be done by watching her pleasure herself and then copying what she did. Only when she feels so safe and secure that she can fully relax to do this, and then let you do the same, will intense spectacular sexual harmony be achieved between you. This is the point at which you know you’ve reached your goal. To please her.


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How Can A Dating Expert Help You

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How Can A Dating Expert Help YOU?

Have you ever thought that your love life just simply isn’t going how you want it to? Do you have confidence issues when it comes to approaching men or women? Do you struggle with things to say to keep a conversation going, and keep it exciting. Do you worry about being relegated into the “friend zone”?

You’re not on your own. Hundreds of thousands of men and women face a daily struggle to “fit in”, to feel confident when it comes to talking to people of the opposite sex who they are attracted to. Sure you can talk to someone in the office all day every day, but when it comes to someone who you would like to get to know more, fear raises it’s ugly head.

This is where a professional dating expert comes in.

Just what is a dating expert anyway?

You might think it is someone who can get as many notches as possible in his or her bed post and brag to all of his or her friends. While in a way it is true that your romantic life will improve no end, a dating coach has to be so much more than that.

The coach needs to be able to look at you and quickly ascertain what parts of you need work on. The fact is that in 99% of cases, most of the issues you have when it come down to dating are down to you and what you think and feel inside of yourself. if you don’t address these core “inner” issues then you will continue to have issues forever more, even if you do manage to get past the first post with someone.

Down the line confidence issues will cause issues that are out of your control, such as the break down of any new relationship. So it is just as much to do with working on you as it is to do with how many phone numbers you can get.

These days you can find a dating coach for women and of course dating coaches for men too. Nobody needs to be left at the back of the queue when it comes to finding true and exciting love, and being a happier person in yourself at the same time. So you can see that actually the job of a real dating expert requires a lot of skills.

Female dating coaches will loo at what areas a woman can improve in her outlook and the way she talks and acts around people she likes. Much the same for men. Most issues relate around self confidence and inner fears.

What to look for in a dating expert

When looking for the right dating expert, you do of course need to feel comfortable around them, but at the same time you need to be aware that at some point you will be facing your inner fears head on. A good dating expert will be “with you” and “by your side” as you go through this process, guiding you carefully through it until you reach success on the other side.

Find a dating expert that has a good solid trusted reputation. One that has a lot of testimonials from past customers. remember also that nowadays the dating industry is a real thing. It is not filled with seedy people out to get your money. Real people who are qualified and certified our out there with your needs in mind.

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Choosing The Best Dating Agency To Suit Your Own Personality


When looking for a dating agency you need to find one that you feel comfortable with. However you also need to bear in mind that at some point you will need to step outside of your comfort zone and try things that seem Alien or uncomfortable to you so you need to go in with an open mind with what lies ahead for you.

A dating agency is a service or company that helps you to meet up with people with the idea of romance in mind. A professional matchmaking service will accurately be able to pick up on the kinds of things you like (usually through an interview online or in person) and then find suitable partners who at least match the criteria you are seeking.

Temper this thought with the fact that sometimes it is often best to go in with an open mind and consider trying different kinds of people too. Romance can rear it’s head in all manner of unlikely places, so expect the unexpected.

Which matchmaker site should you consider?

It needs to be one that is able to accurately predict the right kinds of people for you to meet. often a real tangible “in-person” dating agency is the only way to go as the interviewer will be able to accurately understand you and your needs and work hard to find the right potential matches for you.

The best matchmaker is one who can do this swiftly and get it right the first time. You will soon lose confidence once they mismatch you all too often.

Free match services

There does exist a few free matchmaking services however if there is no incentive for them to over-exceed for “you” how can you give them your full attention for the times when you need extra help?

Professional dating agency

A professional dating agency will quickly become apparent due to the number of high rated reviews it constantly gets.

Which are the best matchmaking services?

Some of the top rated ones in order of rating (best first) are: Zoosk, Elite singles, Match, eHarmony, Dating agency, Just senior singles, Christian mingle, something serious and Mature love.

There are of course countless others around and many of your friends will be able to recommend one that they know about so don’t be afraid to look into other dating agency sites or services and even consider personalized 1-to-1 dating expert help. There are some real professional dating experts out there now how really know how to help you.

Seek out professional matchmaker reviews

A professional matchmaker will offer you a LOT of positive reviews that are easy to find and read or listen to. Other not so well known services will be more hidden with fewer reviews.

A dating agency for anyone

As things have progressed, in-field experts have been able to create professional dating agency services for all manner of interests. You will find military dating agency services, Russian dating agency services and many many more.

One of the best ways to get started with a dating agency is to sign up for their service and see for yourself. You’ll have to fill out a profile and then look at potential matches and see how things go.

As an alternative, consider a professional dating coach that offers specialized 1-to-1 dating help. The benefits of this are that your journey happens far quicker and you reach your end goal much sooner.

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